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Wednesday, July 21, 2010

It turns out it *was* too good to be true

Massive cystic hygroma (sp? correct word?). 1 in 5 chance of being chromosomally abnormal. 1 in 1,000 chance that the hygroma thing would resolve itself even if it turned out (with a CVS test) that there was no chromosome problem. D&C scheduled for late tomorrow afternoon.

Utter devastation.
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21 comments:

  1. KellyJuly 21, 2010 at 2:02 PM

    I am so incredibly sorry.

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  2. jillJuly 21, 2010 at 2:20 PM

    I'm so very sorry :( Thinking of you *hug*

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  3. irrationalexuberanceJuly 21, 2010 at 2:25 PM

    I'm so very sorry. My heart goes out to you.

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  4. cdgJuly 21, 2010 at 2:37 PM

    I am so very sorry. My heart is breaking for you. I too got devistating news at my NY scan, it was the worst day of my life. Please reach out to me if you need anything. This is a terrible thing to have to go through. Good luck with the D&C tomorrow, please keep us posted.
    I am thinking of you and sending love your way. I wish I could give you a big hug.
    I will never understand why these things have to happen to people who have worked so hard to get have a baby, makes no sense.

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  5. KimJuly 21, 2010 at 3:10 PM

    Oh Gosh, I am so terribly sorry and heart broken for you. I cannot imagine what you are feeling right now. I wish I could hug you, because I dont't know if there is anything else that would come even remotely close to making you feel better right now. It's just not fair...I don't get it. xoxoxoxoxox

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  6. KatieJuly 21, 2010 at 3:12 PM

    My heart just breaks. If you ever want to talk, I know we don't "know" each other - but I wanted to let you know that with my first pregnancy, my little girl had a huge cystic hygroma too. So, unfortunately, I know what it feels like to get those results. Please contact me anytime you need someone who has been there.... I will be thinking of you tomorrow and hoping that the staff are gentle with you. Be gentle to yourself too. And do what you need to do to survive...

    Again, I am so very sorry!!!!!

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  7. wifeyJuly 21, 2010 at 4:34 PM

    I am so, so sorry. ((hugs))

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  8. EbJuly 21, 2010 at 4:39 PM

    so, so sorry

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  9. AdeleJuly 21, 2010 at 4:43 PM

    I'm so very sorry. It's a horrible horrible thing to walk into an appointment with expectation and then to walk out devastated. I'm so sorry for this loss.

    LFCA

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  10. JulieJuly 21, 2010 at 4:59 PM

    I'm so sorry.

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  11. LeslieJuly 21, 2010 at 5:26 PM

    I am so so sorry!!!

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  12. HeatherJuly 21, 2010 at 7:04 PM

    I'm so sorry for your loss. You will be in my thoughts. Take care.

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  13. RebeccaJuly 21, 2010 at 7:18 PM

    I'm so incredibly sorry.

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  14. MarianneJuly 21, 2010 at 7:23 PM

    You are in my thoughts, I am so sorry, what unbelievably bad luck.

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  15. Justine LJuly 21, 2010 at 7:28 PM

    Oh, I'm so so sorry to hear about your loss. How awful ... I had an appointment like this once, myself. And I had gone alone. I hope that you have people who are taking care of you right now, and that you can be kind to yourself; you definitely have a community of people sending supportive, loving thoughts your way.

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  16. rebeccaJuly 21, 2010 at 7:42 PM

    Oh, I'm so terribly sorry for your devastating loss. We also went through a horribly painful loss recently & are working through our grief the best we know how. Thinking of you & praying your given the support you need right now & strength for the future.

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  17. babyinterruptedJuly 21, 2010 at 8:38 PM

    I'm so very sorry. (LFCA)

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  18. FranJuly 22, 2010 at 3:19 AM

    I cannot believe this....I am in tears for you, big hugs my friend. i don't know what else to say. Fran

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  19. AlexJuly 22, 2010 at 8:54 AM

    Oh sweetie, I'm so very sorry. I had such hopes for this one for you. Thinking of you as you go through the D&C. Hugs to you.

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  20. AnonymousJuly 22, 2010 at 9:08 AM

    I am so sorry for your loss. I pray the D&C went smoothly. I have been there girl if you need a shoulder.

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  21. NJuly 23, 2010 at 5:28 AM

    I'm so sorry this has happened. I'm thinking about you. Hang in there.

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